How’s your day, your week, your month?!
I hope you enjoyed the organicgirl recipe that I posted almost TWO weeks ago! Sheesh, where has the time gone?!
I’d like to take a minute to say happy anniversary to this lovely blog. I got a notification that F2BF is now FOUR YEARS OLD. Can you believe that? So much of my life has been spilled out onto the pages of this blog and I love that I’ll forever have those memories. Also, thanks to those of you who continue to stop by and who have followed since day 1 – you’re all so wonderful.
My long time readers have been through a lot with me and will continue to read about my highs and lows (when I get time to check in) as the months go on. Today I wanted to catch y’all up a little bit on where I’m at in life, what’s going on and what the next steps are.
I go back and forth about how much I like to share on here, but I think a lot of you continue to read because you have enjoyed how real I am and so many of you can relate to what I have to say.
I’m sure you’ve caught on by now that I’m a single gal again. If you asked me if I thought I’d ever be single again, after meeting Dan, I would’ve told you ‘No way’! But sometimes, things aren’t as you plan and it was just best, for both of us, to end things and move on.
Long distance is HARD.
Relationships are HARD.
Breakups are really HARD…
But, life goes on and I’m looking forward to the next chapters in my life.
Following the break-up, I thought I just wanted to start dating again. I enjoy sharing my days with another person and experiencing life together. So, might as well jump right back in, right?
No! I am not ready for dating. What I am ready for is focusing all of my energy on work and myself, as well as, my family and my friends.
Dating is too much work. Tinder? Yea, that’s just not happening. Blind dates? I’m going to pass for now.
I just want to do me for a while and enjoy the fun and freedom that comes with singledom. I mean, who wouldn’t?!
So, over the next couple months, I’m going to crack the whip on my workouts, since that’s one of the things that really makes me happy. Like, instant mood upgrade – every time! What’s great about that is that I’m also MOVING and my gym is super close to my new house. How perfect! And the finished basement is dying to have someone Turboing down there.
The one thing I care most about is being the best me that I can. I want to be confident and look and feel my best. Right now, I don’t. So, that’s where I’m going to start. In January, Ashley and I are going to do the Ultimate Reset again. We did it two years ago before my birthday and had awesome results and felt better all over. My birthday is February 3 and by then I’m hoping to be back to feeling like myself again and ready to move forward into another chapter.
Birthday. Woof. 27. Ugh.
Enough about the birthday.
In the coming months I’m going to use this blog simply as my personal diary. I’m going to let you know where things stand, how I’m feeling as the days go, if I have any funny boy or bar stories, good workouts or recipes, and how the move is going… because right now my like isn’t just focused to be fit…. but focused to be refreshed and fabulous.
Stick around. It’s just getting good….